Dysfunctional Relationship and Marriage, is opposite the functional marriage explained above. Here each party is looking for their partner’s faults, they are full of reasons, complaints and excuses. They are like two nations with divers interest, no common sense of agreement on any issue, no common purpose and interest.
I FEEL MY HUSBAND IS CHEATING, DO I NEED AN EVIDENCE( CAN’T I JUST TRUST MY FEELINGS)?
The two greatest enemies of a successful relationship & marriage is Doubt and Assumption. Many marriages have been led to ditch because of unfounded gossips, from external forces who naturally would not wish for any marriage to last one hour, so the onus is on you to investigate all matters of allegation against your spouse before you comment or take a decision as to what to do. Definitely you need more that what you hear or assume, you may need to convince yourself (if need be), however, the greatest problem is if you find out that, it’s not true, how would you feel?.
The other side to it, is, if your spouse discovers that you are spying on them based on assumption, what will he/she do?. You really have to be matured about your actions or decisions and understand the full consequence of the outcome.